Wednesday, November 5, 2008

There comes a time that every life goes off-course, in this desperate moment, who would you be…?

The person you thought you are or something different? Perhaps come out as a better individual under pressure, or worse?
When your life goes off-course, the only way left is always a crossroad, between good and bad, happiness or sorrow, it is here hat we find out whether are ethics are stronger than our emotions, because the right path may not always bring happiness with you while the wrong may seem right after all. It is on these crossroads that our life really takes shape, because these choices almost always alter the course of our life.

Mostly when we make a choice, its for our good, but sometimes we are forced to do things cause of our conscience, like calling someone just cause you know that’ll make them happy, or realizing its just leading them on something that makes them picture you together when that’s actually not what you want, but what they want. I know this sounds horribly complicated but it happens all the times, you are forced to lie just to make someone happy, and to justify it, its always said that a lie is always preferable to truth if it makes someone feel better. But can’t we see that in the course of lying just to make others happy, we stress ourselves and that’s definitely not what anyone’d want right, cause in today’s world stress leads to tension and to depression. And that is too dangerous to have, in my opinion. 

So I guess that whether or not we should make better choices for ourselves really depends on what the situation and the time really demands, and you can’t really decide in advance what you’re going to do. And when you make that choice, it’ll always come with a bunch of what if’s. 

Choosing the right path in your life is not always as easy as it seems, but its better than doing something you might regret and carry the guilt all your life. Because regret and guilt aren’t the kind of burdens you’d want to carry around. The best way is to follow your heart but be in sync with your mind as well. 

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